Electricity and retention

Found on AllExpert.com:

QUESTION
I love enemas and electrical play. Since water and electricity have a history, do you know if it’s dangerous to mix them anally by, say, using an electrical butt plug with an tens unit while full of enema fluid? It sounds hot, but if it killed me, that would definitely be a drag.

ANSWER GIVEN
The problem with water is the fact it is fluid. As such leakages and distribution problems may occur with enema waters and a plug inserted. Besides direct contractions of sphincter/colon with already filled bowels could be a self defeating exercise not being able to retain the enema. The only safe combination I see is external pads of the TENS with an enema in. Perhaps placing pads close, but externally to the area of enema. The potential for messy uncontrollable discharges still remains, but the aggravation risk lessened.

So here’s an enema area that runs smack into my kink side of life, YAY!
I don’t know first hand about utilizing an electrical butt plug with regards to retention. But I would agree that you could most certainly put tens unit pads around the outside of your little brown star. In the area of mess: just do this with chucks down, or in the bathtub if you’re concerned. Though I would think that difficulty and the fear of making a mess would be more fun *evil twinkle in my eye

Now, if someone said, “I want you to do electrical and enema play with me at the same time”, my mind first goes to filling them with water and then utilizing medical sounds along with a violet wand. If you have not seen someone playing with a violet wand, it’s lovely! The bottom gets jumpy, fidgety, and tenses their muscles. Of course this is everything that makes a long and difficult retention even more frustratijng. Puuuurrrrfect. Give it a try, let me know what you think!

The Spoof

Do you watch The Spoof News online? It’s silly, ridiculous, useless and funny. A good moments break during the day. I want to know what’s going on with the writers that they have posted three seperate enema stories within two weeks time? Why the current anal fixation and what’s the good beefy story behind their playfulness?

Oct 17, 2009: Two Die After Paying $9,000 Fee For Celestial Enema Rituals:’ Shit Happens’ Says Spiritual Guru!

Oct 27, 2009: Fleet Enemas threaten to attack Earth! Aliens behind it! Government says,’no need to panic!’

Nov 4, 2009: US Senator Al Franken hospitalized after peanut butter enema goes wrong!

Which is your favorite?

Regular bowel movements

I’m been getting emails asking about naturally generating regular bowel movements through enemas. This is not suggested: your body should be able to maintain this on its own. Think of enemas as a ‘deep cleansing’ not a regular washing.

Though they discourage enemas, I have found this site to be useful in regards to putting enough fiber in my diet, which as a lacto-ovo-pescatarian is close at heart for me.

Square Village

And well, this chart had me laughing pretty hard at work so I’ll share that too.

Stool Chart

Coffee

I haven’t tried a coffee enema yet. I’m excited about doing so–a partner recently purchased several bags for me of certified organic, non-flavored and fairly traded coffee for use with enemas. It is finely ground and rich in color: seemingly a medium roast, though I’ve read that does not matter so much.

I have long had a fascination with full body detoxification. It began while masturbating one day and imagining someone forcing me to go through several days of full detox with enemas, fating on only honey and lemon water to drink, yoga, exfoliating and more. Um, yes: I have a control fetish! Mind you, this fantasy was prior to my deepened interest of enemas though I had used them to clean for anal sex already. A natural progression for me is to seek out more intense body purification methods. No, I have not found someone willing to put me through such hoops as a full cleansing, but I have lured partners into at least the love of enemas–so we’ll start there on my journey.

Coffee enemas are hailed to increase the detoxification effects, increased liver detoxification, and pain reduction. The natural and hollistic health communities utilize them as a common remedy in the complementary treatment of cancer. The most important difference of a coffee enema is the presence of caffeine. It stimulates the relaxation of smooth muscles causing dilatation of blood vessels and bile ducts, and increased stimulation.

It was noted that coffee enemas may be encouraging of an electrolyte imbalance: I suppose sucking down some gatoraide prior would surely be of help. I find this to be helpful when taking any enema in fact. Obviously with the use of caffeine it’s said that you can achieve quick relief when fatigued, sleepy, headachy, or is just feeling poorly. By stimulating the liver and gallbladder, your body should push out bile it would otherwise hold onto: thus generating more movement and activity throughout your body.

Apparently drinking coffee and having a coffee enema are extremely different: and though I don’t drink coffee often, I do enjoy it. Though I dislike the jittery feeling I get for not drinking it regularly. Apparently that’s exactly the part you experience when receiving a coffee enema.

I’ve found this recipe and hope to find the time to give it a try in the near future:
Coffee Enema Recipe

* Bring 8 cups of water to a boil.
* Grind eight heaping spoonfuls of organic coffee. Put it in a french press pot. You can use a drip coffee maker, but be sure to use organic, non-bleached coffee filters.
* Pour the water over the coffee grounds and let it steep then cool for one hour or more.
* After this amount of time, the liquid should be about body temperature. If you stick your finger in the water it should be lukewarm or cool, but not hot.
* Press the coffee grounds to the bottom, then pour the coffee liquid into the enema bag.
* Never utilize flavored coffee, sweetened coffee, or coffee with milk (cafe au lait) for this purpose.

I haven’t spoken to others in person about their coffee enema experiences, though there’s much on the web to contradict and give further details. A simple article with more details can be found here.

His first bulb

He takes medication that requires him to take suppositories every day. And with my own enema interest it is amazing e hasn’t allowed me to help. I am often asking if I can put him on a set enema regime to help take care of this in a way that is less upsetting to his system. No, he says. And round and round we go for the past three years!

No.

Finally, one day, I got a yes! So we starting with a single squeeze of the enema bulb. He describes it as uncomfortable. But not so much that he isn’t willing to finally try a bag next time. Hopefully that won’t take three years again.

I loved seeing him standing in the shower naked, arms and hands outstretched onto the shower side, legs spread and a massive blush running across his cheeks. It wasn’t this subjected him to me, on the contrary it was because he allowed me that I felt honored and excited by this. Hopefully we’ll have more of those moments in the future.

I’ve heard this is a common problem with enema lovers: getting their partner not only to accept, but to appreciate and then enjoy as well. I have been lucky to have all my partners be accepting and most of them to be appreciative and some to truly love it as much as I do myself.

But how sad to not have this! I’ve known folks that go out seeking a partner that is already into this. And I’ve known those that find a partner and then convert them. Others chose not to share this interest at all. Difficult choices for some, and a simple task for others.

Label your soap

I had all my gear laid out. All the time in the world to enjoy. I was going to make the most of my afternoon alone with myself. Enjoy a long hot shower, give myself a much deserving enema and pampering, and get off–A LOT. But the fates had other things in store for me…

Imagine this: I’m in the shower, aromatherapy situated and filling my body with relaxation, lights dimmed, cat happy fed and sleeping so as not to bother me, enema gear and supplies all set up, my brand new vintage enema can prepped and ready for plundering, candles lit and my trusty vibrating rubber duckie by my side. What could be a more perfect scenario you might ask? Humor was apparently missing!

I filled the can, dropped in double the usual amount of bronners and took my time enjoying the new delron nozzle I had only yet tried once before. It has 8 holes in a circle that I can feel very accutely and JUST the right curve to hit my anal G spot and I inhailed the first can with sighs of relief. I was delighted to find how easily I could put the can in front of the shower and refill whilst never stopping. I took a second can and though I nearly burst I held it for some time.

I stepped out of the shower to expel and came back to refill with a second can of clear water. But as that was finishing I realized the inside of the can was slick as though oil had been added. My eyes opened wide and suddenly I realized I didn’t smell the familiar peppermint I was used to associating with enema-time. What had I done?!

I opened the bottle, smelled and realized someone had switched my mini bronners bottle with my mini grapeseed oil and essential oil blend I used for bedtime. My mind raced over the information I have read about using essential oil and pressed oil in the bum. I ran out of the shower and grabbed the actual bronners. Refilling the can I put in a good helping of soap and off we go again. I was both worried about getting the oil out and wanting to enjoy myself.

All in all I went through at least 6 full cans! After the initial release I was able to simply release into the shower: I love that feeling of simply letting go, allowing my body to respond as it desires as opposed to holding, waiting, controlling. Feeling the water burst through and into my ass, the nozzle sliding again myself inside and my duckie helping between my legs, to see that my cunt is filled and thrilled.

Efest West 2009: Day 4

Can
Here we go again!! And this time I got to spend time purchasing needle supplies from Boss Bondage along with fun medical fetish implements including saline infusion supplies and an incredible vintage 1942 enema can from Kinky Medical. It’s 2 quarts and stainless steel, absolutely a beauty.

The plaster casting and bondage class was a huge success as it was the most hands on interactive class we had and folks made a wonderful mess while having fun. I was lit on fire as the fire demo girl and as always couldn’t get enough of the fire.

What a treat to have Lochai from Kink for the weekend. I know he had a blast and learned some new tricks that we will hopefully see on their site soon. He very animated and both he and his lovelies seemed excited about the prospects.

The catered meals were yummy–super kudos to the chefs for putting out such awesome spreads all weekend long. They kept us filled and yet ready to try the next dish.

I couldn’t believe how perfectly the ending ceremonies went. Lots of attendees won prizes and the sacrificial enema virgin actually had an orgasm mid-filling!! She was such a good sport and so embarrassed to have shared that with an entire audience behind her.

I am exhausted but already looking forward to next years event. Same weekend, same location–all new ideas already.

Efest West 2009: Day 3

FULL. The day I mean. I wish my tummy and butt were too but I’m too busy for that right now.
We began the first full day of Efest West at 10am which means I began it at 630am. I love early mornings though–when they are early because I have something exciting to do.

To start with I began the day by getting a present from my Daddy of scalpels and supplies! Oh how I’ve wanted and desired to learn to do cuttings. Oh how nervous and excited I am! I’ve wanted one myself for years but the stars simply haven’t aligned for me yet. Someday. I also picked up some one way valves and converters as I use a combination of different tubes and bags often enough.

Guess who was there! Beth Tyler and oh so many of their supplies. They even had the illustrious JBL for sale. I have not yet tried one of these but I’m looking forward to the day, for the fact of it. To be honest I think it would be awesome for my partner: more comfortable. There’s something about the hanging bag that’s so erotic to me though…

JBL

The classes all went super well and it seemed people were nothing but happy with them. I think the biggest highlight was that nearly all the classes had lovely ladies and gents on display actually being played with on stage or in front of the room at large. We had squirting, orgasms, urethral penetration, enemas, needles, fire and more–all of it live. The photographer whom had been sent by Hustler’s Taboo Magazine got lots of it on film for the magazine coverage of the event–I’m looking forward to seeing that come out.

The silent auction was a hit and people won gifts ranging from double bardex nozzles to needle kits to enema porn! And the Fetish Fashion Show–wow. We had gorgeous ladies and gentlemen on stage stripping and dancing, strutting their stuff. We even had cunnilingus on stage which was totally a highlight.

The play party was again fun as folks got to try out their new gear and let loose after a long day.

Efest West 2009: Day 2

Off and running!
It’s lovely to see so many new faces and watch as they bloom right before our eyes. I cannot express the thrill I had in having so many visitors that came from far away. Our volunteers were great and on top of everything, seeing that things ran smoothly and everyone knew without a doubt that they were welcome.

The event dieticians laid out a lovely spread for the opening social and lots of folks started to open up and chat with others. Doc and Nurse gave their legendary Introduction to Enema Play class which was a hit as always. I’ve not even seen someone walk away from their class without having picked up some new tid bit to add to their experiences. If you get a chance, please do try to see it, they have taught it all over the Bay area in the past two years and no doubt hope to take it further. Their slide show presentation is an incredible addition to the lecture and demonstration.

The Sampler Party which was a HUGE hit with new and seasoned players. I got such a thrill watching several wrestlers go head to head, especially when they were naked and sweaty. The suppositories were a massive hit and no doubt we will be lucky to have her teach it next year so folks can go home with some to play. My biggest thrill of the evening was whilst I was in mid air during a rope suspension. I had my head and eyes lowered and was working on breathing through some back pain when I heard it the first time.

“This is amazing, I never thought would see these things and it’s great”

Do you know I heard that about 10 times more throughout the weekend from various folks that took a leap of faith and came out to the event unsure of what they would encounter. My heart soared! To see so many folks open up to new experiences and broadened ideas–I was in heaven. We knew it would be a bit patchy to get the E community and kink community together on this venture, so we went about it with the plan of not doing so until the event itself and I think it turned out wonderful for all the effort put on both sides of the fence.

Ohhh, and the vendors. Everyone was there early save for one company. So I got to peruse and go digging before the crowds hit. Stuff I had not seen in person before and I knew I would blow through some bucks.

After the sampler we rolled right into a play party so folks could get going and enjoy. Baby boy was instructed by his top for the night to give himself an enema (apparently she doesn’t know much about them). Daddy and I watched as he fumbled and shuffled his feet. We suggested he set up camp next to our scene as we were simply doing some bootblacking and needles. We were so glad he agreed! It was absolute fun to watch my boy set up his equipment, pull over a spanking bench, lean over and fill himself up. I was so proud of him as he smiled and blushed throughout.

Looking forward to another day in this medical play paradise.

Efest West 2009: Day 1

What a lovely evening! My back was well enough to allow me heels for the night, a treat I don’t get often enough these days. So I took advantage and pulled out my fetish nurse outfit for the start of what is sure to be a fabulous weekend.

We opened registration over at the local Leather bar, Renegades and even had several folks stop by to sign up. Folks were in great spirits as we kicked things off and had a few hours to meet and greet with lots of visitors whom had flown in from out of town for the events.

The Nurse and Doc helped to share the details of upcoming classes, see to it that folks received their Efest pins and had a good look through the amazingly beautiful, full color program. We had some amazing sponsors step up to help with the weekend! All full weekend attendees got a program, pin, and a bag full of goodies including a lovely enema nozzle and schwag from sponsors.

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