I’ve not seen it addressed much. Of course with the bias in the medical field for male studies versus female, I’m hardly surprised. Annoyed a bit, and saddened.
First, on the aspect of sexuality and menstruation:
Last week I was at my weekly drink haunt, a gay bar which happens to host Women’s Night on Thursday. A darling friend and I were playfully flirting as usual when it took a bit of a turn. I had wondered off to the powder room and as I came out of the stall there she was staring at me, wrists in a lovely pair of cuffs. I laughed as she fumbled with the door and lock.
Being the chivalrous gal I am, I asked, “Need help dalin?”
“It appears so!”, she responded with a laugh.
I walked past the stall door, flinging it wide open, tore into her pants, yanked from either side of those hips and pushed her roughly onto the toilet seat. Blinking and seemingly stunned she began to giggle as she said, “Oops, you left the door open”. Well, so I did…fancy that… *grin
I suddenly realized she had on a menstrual pad the size of a two man row boat. She saw me looking and blushed heavily. “I’m bleeding everywhere”. Me, being a light 3 day maximum bleeder can hardly understand. I haven’t seen a disposable pad sort of thing in years as I adore my sea sponges and thin washable pads.
Oh? Sounds like a treat to me! I pushed her torso more firmly into the porceilin and buried my head between her legs. I cold feel her whole body tense and the spasms of air as she waited to see what I was doing… You must know that she’s keenly aware of my interests in piss play, cunnilingus and vagina torture. It was fitting for her to be concerned.
I enfolded my face into the crumbled clothing around her legs, pushed my nose forward and took in several large breathes before coming up for air and then diving down again. I love the smell of monthly blood!! Is it the musky aroma of sex that’s so similar? At that moment another lady came through the door, paused, and continued on!
Not two days later and I’m online and there’s a large discussion on a fetish website about a woman’s moon and how utterly disgusted the female populace is with that physical reality! I was shocked to see every women state how terrible this ‘thing’ was and how gross it made them feel… I was shocked, I never could have imagined disliking something so fruitful and beautiful! Naturally as a teen I was unsure and curious, but never “mortified”, “disgusted”, “repulsed” or “ashamed”! This is an amazing part of our bodies that allows us to create new life. And these women were so negative about the fact that it happens to them, over, and over, and over again. What happened to the empowerment of the feminine body?! Where is their Goddess connectivity?
The Art of Menstruation
Since when did society teach us this was a negative? Thankfully I didn’t get the memo. Did their mothers not show them how to love their body and the strengths that it can possess? I wasn’t taught the lesson, but I did learn the body is a temple, though how I choose to show my believe in this is deeply sidetracked past that particular starting point.
Several religions have menstruation-related traditions that discourage intercourse such as orthodox Judaism, Hinduism and Islam. I cannot imagine! I am vastly more easily aroused during my period, and much more aggressive about taking what I want!
Second, on the use of enemas during your moon cycle:
I’ve not yet found details online about utilizing an enema during your monthly. However, I can speak to my experience and that of several ladies I’ve played with.
The majority of women have some sort of cramping or back spasms during this time. I for one rarely have tummy cramps but have a varying degree of SI Join pain due to subsequent hormones and previous back injuries.
For this sort of pain, front or back, a slow, calming milk and honey enema is ideal for me. I’ve seen this recipe with eggs as well, though I imagine they would cause gas buildup which is not desired for a relaxation enema.
1 1/2 quarts of warm water
16 oz. of warm milk
8 oz. of honey
Warm the milk on the stove slowly (you don’t want to scorch it) then add the honey in and put it all in the bag. Next, add the water to the bag adjusting the temperature as you go.
Another concern when a women is menstruating is constipation. Need I explain the connection here?! What you need is a good cleaning as well as introduced fiber.
Flaxseed Recipe: The unique combination of nutrients in Fortified Flax makes it one of nature’s most remarkable foods. Fortified and stabilized with antioxidant vitamins and minerals. It is an excellent food for colon health.
Ingredients: Ground Organic flax seed, fortified and stabilized with zinc, “Yeast-Free” vitamin B-6, vitamin E and vitamin C.
Enema Recipe:
8oz. Flaxseed Tea
1 ½ qts. warm filtered water
Some more tidbits:
* I am often super tired during the two strongest days of my cycle. Using a peppermint enema is helpful as it stimulated the body!
* If you feel bloated at this time, having an enema can help rid your body of some of what it’s holding. But remember to use salt to ensure the bladder, kidneys and such don’t retain more water
* If you’re prone to binge eating at this time, enemas are a good way to help rid the body.
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