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What’s you favorite Enema Erotica?

{ December 25, 2009 @ 21:43 } · { To Do, erotica }
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I was sorely disappointed when I first began searching online for enema erotica. Not books to buy; stories to print out and read as or before I played.  (erotic fodder)  Surely most of you had a similar reaction. I came across countless blogs and websites designed for the sole purpose of getting me to purchase poor quality videos and poorly written erotic stories.

Perseverance!

Though I’m not a huge fan, I have utilized EnemaTips on occasion for information. Including their user submitted erotica section. One part I enjoy is that you can submit your own work, of which you know I don’t write a lot of. I write mostly factually, though my partners are often much better at the juicy writing. But you should try your hand and submit a story to them here.

With the increase in ebooks on the net, you can find a huge variety of enema erotica via Amazon and elsewhere.

You can find simple sites with “vanilla” enema stories, and a bit more twisted and interesting at such sites as Enemas4Fun. There are google’s of sites such as Literotica that allow user added content and stories. Some writers are more capable than others, without a doubt.

Are you the type of erotica reader that wants to jack off at the same time as reading, or to read then jack off? The length of the story may make a significant different in this area. I enjoy both: stories that take me on a lengthy journey need to be of better quality; the erotica short stories need not be so well put together so long as they are not drawn out and provided the sort of meatiness I seek.

Please share your favorite sites and enema erotica here: drop me a note or leave it on remarks.

Fetlife Holiday Promotion

{ December 7, 2009 @ 17:31 } · { To Do }
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If you haven’t locked into Fetlife.com then you’re missing out on the opportunity to make some incredible connections with folks that are into all sorts of fun and interesting kinks. Totally free. Just remember, “Don’t Yuck My Yum” = just cause it’s not your thing doesn’t mean it’s not okay for someone else.

So check them out, sign up, PARTICIPATE in the groups, profiles and conversations.

And most of all, don’t miss the incredible giveaway they’re hosting this month: I got to tell Santa how naughty I was! So, have you been Naughty or Nice? Check it out and perhaps win some of the awesome prizes.  VISIT FETLIFE HERE

Sorry to note there aren’t a lot of medical fetish toys, and no enema gear: but plenty of stuff to get your pussy wet and cock hard regardless!

Events: NYC 12/11/09

{ November 21, 2009 @ 19:57 } · { To Do }
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You all have been sending me notes asking for details about additional upcoming events I come across so here’s one someone sent to me:

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Enema Play and Health benefits with Dr. Mark, AKA StrictDr

Date: Friday – December 11, 2009
Time: 8:45 PM – 10:45 PM
Place: #250 West 26th Street, NYC (bet: 7th and 8th Ave)
Contact Phone: 646-319-2780
Contact Email: info@DomSubFriends.com

*Demo/Lecture: Enema Play and Health benefits with Dr. Mark, AKA StrictDr
*Friday, December 11th at Paddles
*Time: 8:45 PM – 10:45 PM (doors open 8:45 PM)
*Address: #250 West 26th Street (Bet: 7th/8th Ave)

The presentation:
The seminar will focus on the safety issues of anal and enema play, and discuss various equipment and solutions for health, erotic and discipline enemas. Everything you wanted to know about enema will be discussed at this demo.

The seminar will be both a lecture and demonstration, with questions appreciated and requested during and afterwards. This is your chance to find out how to do this type of play safely and properly without actually injuring a person or causing any unnecessary medical problems.

As per Dr. Mark.. “It is “Enema Volunteer Night;” hence, if any ladies want to receive an enema just ask.
All request can be written to: StrictDR@aol.com or to DomSubFriends@aol.com

The presenter:
Dr. Mark has been associated with the scene for over 20 years now, incorporating his understanding of the control of enemas as a dominant with his appreciation for the health benefits of colon cleansing.
He is a trained colon therapist and has studied herbology, allowing for the administration of herbal-based enemas along with enemas for role-play.

**About DomSubFriends MEETINGS and SOCIALS**

*Everyone 18+ years old is welcomed to attend.
*All meetings and socials are $4 for DSF & affiliate members, and $8 for non members.

DomSubFriends meetings are held 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th Friday of each month at Paddles; the World’s longest running BDSM club.
Address: #250 West 26th Street, NYC (Bet: 7th/8th Ave)-entrance through the parking lot.

Paddles management is gracious to offer all male attendees of DSF meetings a 50% discount (only $20) to stay afterwards when the club opens to the general public at 11 PM. Females can stay after the meeting at only $5, providing they are members of DomSubFriends (or affiliate group); otherwise it’s $10 to stay.

For savings to DSF meetings, affiliate meetings, fetish vendors and S&M clubs, take a look at our website. Discover the many benefits of becoming a DSF member via the net or in person at one of our meetings.

On a separate Note:
If any BDSM or Alternative Lifestyle group would like to post their events on our website calendar, get a password by dropping us a note at: info@DomSubFriends.com

DomSubFriends management
http://DomSubFriends.com
DomSubFriends@aol.com

Electricity and retention

{ November 11, 2009 @ 04:22 } · { To Do }
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Found on AllExpert.com:

QUESTION
I love enemas and electrical play. Since water and electricity have a history, do you know if it’s dangerous to mix them anally by, say, using an electrical butt plug with an tens unit while full of enema fluid? It sounds hot, but if it killed me, that would definitely be a drag.

ANSWER GIVEN
The problem with water is the fact it is fluid. As such leakages and distribution problems may occur with enema waters and a plug inserted. Besides direct contractions of sphincter/colon with already filled bowels could be a self defeating exercise not being able to retain the enema. The only safe combination I see is external pads of the TENS with an enema in. Perhaps placing pads close, but externally to the area of enema. The potential for messy uncontrollable discharges still remains, but the aggravation risk lessened.

So here’s an enema area that runs smack into my kink side of life, YAY!
I don’t know first hand about utilizing an electrical butt plug with regards to retention. But I would agree that you could most certainly put tens unit pads around the outside of your little brown star. In the area of mess: just do this with chucks down, or in the bathtub if you’re concerned. Though I would think that difficulty and the fear of making a mess would be more fun *evil twinkle in my eye

Now, if someone said, “I want you to do electrical and enema play with me at the same time”, my mind first goes to filling them with water and then utilizing medical sounds along with a violet wand. If you have not seen someone playing with a violet wand, it’s lovely! The bottom gets jumpy, fidgety, and tenses their muscles. Of course this is everything that makes a long and difficult retention even more frustratijng. Puuuurrrrfect. Give it a try, let me know what you think!

Coffee

{ September 17, 2009 @ 00:36 } · { To Do }
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I haven’t tried a coffee enema yet. I’m excited about doing so–a partner recently purchased several bags for me of certified organic, non-flavored and fairly traded coffee for use with enemas. It is finely ground and rich in color: seemingly a medium roast, though I’ve read that does not matter so much.

I have long had a fascination with full body detoxification. It began while masturbating one day and imagining someone forcing me to go through several days of full detox with enemas, fating on only honey and lemon water to drink, yoga, exfoliating and more. Um, yes: I have a control fetish! Mind you, this fantasy was prior to my deepened interest of enemas though I had used them to clean for anal sex already. A natural progression for me is to seek out more intense body purification methods. No, I have not found someone willing to put me through such hoops as a full cleansing, but I have lured partners into at least the love of enemas–so we’ll start there on my journey.

Coffee enemas are hailed to increase the detoxification effects, increased liver detoxification, and pain reduction. The natural and hollistic health communities utilize them as a common remedy in the complementary treatment of cancer. The most important difference of a coffee enema is the presence of caffeine. It stimulates the relaxation of smooth muscles causing dilatation of blood vessels and bile ducts, and increased stimulation.

It was noted that coffee enemas may be encouraging of an electrolyte imbalance: I suppose sucking down some gatoraide prior would surely be of help. I find this to be helpful when taking any enema in fact. Obviously with the use of caffeine it’s said that you can achieve quick relief when fatigued, sleepy, headachy, or is just feeling poorly. By stimulating the liver and gallbladder, your body should push out bile it would otherwise hold onto: thus generating more movement and activity throughout your body.

Apparently drinking coffee and having a coffee enema are extremely different: and though I don’t drink coffee often, I do enjoy it. Though I dislike the jittery feeling I get for not drinking it regularly. Apparently that’s exactly the part you experience when receiving a coffee enema.

I’ve found this recipe and hope to find the time to give it a try in the near future:
Coffee Enema Recipe

* Bring 8 cups of water to a boil.
* Grind eight heaping spoonfuls of organic coffee. Put it in a french press pot. You can use a drip coffee maker, but be sure to use organic, non-bleached coffee filters.
* Pour the water over the coffee grounds and let it steep then cool for one hour or more.
* After this amount of time, the liquid should be about body temperature. If you stick your finger in the water it should be lukewarm or cool, but not hot.
* Press the coffee grounds to the bottom, then pour the coffee liquid into the enema bag.
* Never utilize flavored coffee, sweetened coffee, or coffee with milk (cafe au lait) for this purpose.

I haven’t spoken to others in person about their coffee enema experiences, though there’s much on the web to contradict and give further details. A simple article with more details can be found here.

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